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Reflection

考虑不同的人有关系nships with. At home, your relationships might include your spouse, parents, children or other family members, and friends. You also have relationships with the people you see at work: other staff members, families, and children in your program. There’s also the person who delivers your mail, your doctor, and your neighbors. Relationships are what make up the foundation of social-emotional health. How important are your relationships to your daily life and well-being? What would it be like without those relationships?

Without relationships, it would be difficult to achieve a sense of belonging or acceptance or to feel like you are part of a community. Relationships are at the foundation of social-emotional health. School-age children have spent the first years of their lives creating deep bonds within their families and are ready to begin developing strong relationships and bonds with their peers, teachers, and other individuals.

什么是社会情绪发展？

Children begin developing social-emotional skills at birth. Infants begin turning their heads toward their caregivers’ voices, looking toward their caregivers and cooing, and crying to let their caregivers know they need something. Their emotional signals, such as smiling, crying, or demonstrating interest and attention, strongly influence the behaviors of others. Similarly, the emotional reactions of others affect children’s social behaviors. As children mature and develop, their social-emotional skills become less centered on having their own needs met by their caregivers and more centered on participating in routines and enjoying experiences with friends and caregivers.

The early-childhood years are a critical time for the formation of positive feelings toward oneself, others, and the larger world. When children are encouraged, nurtured and accepted by adults and peers, they are more likely to be well-adjusted. On the contrary, children who are neglected, rejected, or abused are at risk for social and mental health challenges.

Children develop social-emotional skills in the context of their relationships with their primary caregivers, families, and cultures. Considering how diverse our society is, you can imagine that this diversity is also expressed in how families from different cultures teach children how to manage emotions, socialize, and engage with others. For example, in some cultures, children are taught to avoid eye contact when communicating with others. For other cultures, eye contact is an essential component of social interaction. Culture also affects parenting practices and ways individuals deal with emotions, including handling stress and coping with adversity.

Family priorities affect social-emotional competence. For example, some families might place a high value on talking about emotions and expressing them as they occur, whereas other families may value doing the opposite. As a school-age staff member, you need to be sensitive and respectful of individual differences in social-emotional development when engaging with children in your care and their families.

According to the Collaborative for Academic, Social, and Emotional Learning (CASEL), social and emotional development (also called social-emotional learning) consists of the following five core components:

What Does Social-Emotional Development Look Like In School-Age Children?

School-age children are working hard to develop their social-emotional skills. They are learning the importance of expressing and managing their feelings. They will begin to understand their varied emotions, how to handle them, and how they apply to different experiences and situations. School-age children are also learning the value in positive healthy relationships. They are learning how to make and keep friends and how to develop relationships with mentors, teachers and other adults in their lives. For school-age children, strong emphasis is put on cultivating common social skills.

学龄儿童社交技巧

社交技能与我们互动和与他人沟通的方式有关。他们也可能被称为“社会规则”，因为很多次，这些技能是我们在与他人交互时使用的未说出口的规则。当孩子们培养普通的社交技能时，他们更有可能在学校和后来的生活中体验成功。下面的列表将为您提供共同的社交技能。

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Social-Emotional Development: An Introduction

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作为一名学龄工作人员，您将有各种机会促进学龄儿童社会情感发展，如：

• Model social skills, relationship building techniques, and treating others with respect.
• Plan activities and experiences that help children develop their social skills, feeling of empathy, respect for others, and sense of achievement.
• Create a learning environment that acts as a community and allows children to feel that they belong to a group.
• 使用监督策略，积极的互动，建模和社会情感教学策略，以防止和解决欺凌。

Throughout this course on social-emotional development, there will be many references to being a positive role model for children. As a school-age staff member, children will look to you for cues on how to interact with others. Therefore, you should:

• 在与儿童和成年人互动时，始终保持积极和尊重的风度。
• Express your emotions in a positive way. Stay calm when under pressure and keep your emotions regulated.
• Be aware of your body language and keep it positive.
• 定期与您的计划中的所有儿童和工作人员进行沟通。

Completing this Course

有关本课程的预期，社会和情感发展的更多信息Competency Reflection, and a list of the accompanying Learn, Explore and Apply resources and activities offered throughout the lessons, visit the School-Age Social & Emotional DevelopmentCourse Guide。

Please note the References & Resources section at the end of each lesson outlines reference sources and resources to find additional information on the topics covered. As you complete lessons, you are not expected to review all the online references available. However, you are welcome to explore the resources further if you have interest, or at the request of your trainer, coach, or administrator.